Cosplay hair

Working in my cosplay hair right now with mom. Its not working because of my dark hair color so the colored hair spray wont turn as bright red as we want. I think mom wants to attempt to style the wig we have. I feel so bad that she is doing this for me. I feel like i am making everything hard for her to do. I wish i didnt want to go to this con because if i didnt then it would be a lot easier on every one.